Becoming a parent is the biggest commitment we will make in our lives. We will be responsible for caring for, nurturing and keeping our children safe for years to come. They will rely on us for everything at first. As they get older, they will become more and more independent and eventually make a place for themselves in the world. It is truly an amazing gift to watch a child grow and mature. 

There comes a time, though, when the nurturer becomes the nurtured, the teacher becomes the student. As our children expand their universe, it is only natural that we learn from them and their experiences.

First and foremost, I have learned that I am unconditionally loved. My history with addiction must have made it difficult to love me sometimes. But in my mind, I never doubted that they did. Not for one second.

I have learned to appreciate the beauty of nature. How a walk in the woods has a profoundly calming effect on the mind. How one can feel completely at peace as the rest of the world seems to fade away.

I have learned the power of art and creativity. How a troubled soul can create a painting that is both beautiful to look at and deeply meaningful.

I have learned that the more passionately we love, the more deeply we feel the loss. I have also learned that the pain goes away in time.

I have learned that the process of self discovery and self investigation can lead to a deeper understanding of our behaviors, thoughts and emotions.

I have learned to love animals. How they can give love and loyalty in a way that no human can.

I have learned the power of a photograph.

I have learned about patience, diplomacy and timing. Not yet perfecting it, but understanding it's importance.

I have learned many, many things.

The bond we have with our children is unbreakable. We see them in a way that we see no one else. They are our best teachers..